Know how your child communicates
Children communicate in many ways. They may make sounds, say words, use actions, make facial expressions, and look at people or things.
Recognize and encourage your child every time they try to communicate. When you respond, your child realizes they’ve done something important and will likely do it again.
Get face-to-face when talking to your child
Get on your child’s level by bending down, sitting on small chairs together, or bringing them up to you.
Make sure you’re able to see each other’s faces. This helps you connect with your child and recognize their communication cues. It lets them know you’re interested in them.
Talk during daily routines
Routines such as dressing, bathing, eating, and driving are natural times to talk with your child. Adding comments to everyday routines helps your child understand words and ideas.
Talk about what‘s happening right now. Talk about what you both hear, see, like, and don’t like.
For example, at snack time, you could say, “I’m peeling an orange for your snack. I like the colour orange. Do you like it?”
Help your child learn words
Copying your child’s sounds helps them learn their first words. When they start using words, look at your child and repeat what they said using correct pronunciation.
Your child will need to learn many different types of words to learn and use more words. Here are examples of first words:
- actions: eat, go, play
- asking: want, more, mine, all gone
- clothing: shoes, hat, pants, shirt, coat
- describing words: big, hot, yucky
- feelings: happy, mad, sleepy
- food: cookie, milk, water
- getting attention: look, help, oh-oh
- locations: up, in, on
- names: me, mommy, mama, daddy, dada
- safety words: stop, no, move, ow
- social: okay, hi, bye, my turn
- toys: ball, doll, truck
Talk to a speech-language pathologist if you have any concerns
Birth to 5 years old is an important time for speech, language, and hearing. Strong skills in these areas are important for learning and being ready for school.
Get help early if you have any concerns. Visit the
Talk Box for tips by age.
Where to get help
To learn how speech-language pathologists and audiologists can help with speech, language, and hearing concerns, contact your child’s healthcare provider or visit
Pediatric Rehabilitation.